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What about those creatures that cant point fingers at what we do to them?
And what about those that don’t even understand whats happening?
-Rajeev B.
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What about those creatures that cant point fingers at what we do to them?

And what about those that don’t even understand whats happening?

-Rajeev B.

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Shaping Earth:
Starting with simple ways of shaping earth for human needs of survival, we have transformed ourself into a species on which the fate of many life forms (including ourselves) depends upon.Where we go from here, how far we go and whether we will be lonely travellers as we continue our journey, largely depends on how we shape ourselves now.

Shaping Earth:

Starting with simple ways of shaping earth for human needs of survival, we have transformed ourself into a species on which the fate of many life forms (including ourselves) depends upon.

Where we go from here, how far we go and whether we will be lonely travellers as we continue our journey, largely depends on how we shape ourselves now.

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Rates of depression and anxiety among young people in America have been increasing steadily for the past fifty to seventy years. Today five to eight times as many high school and college students meet the criteria for diagnosis of major depression and/or an anxiety disorder as was true half a century or more ago

One thing we know about anxiety and depression is that they correlate significantly with people’s sense of control or lack of control over their own lives. People who believe that they are in charge of their own fate are less likely to become anxious or depressed than are those who believe that they are victims of circumstances beyond their control.

the average young person in 2002 was more External than were 80% of young people in the 1960s. The rise in Externality on Rotter’s scale over the 42-year period showed the same linear trend as did the rise in depression and anxiety.

Intrinsic goals are those that have to do with one’s own development as a person—such as becoming competent in endeavors of one’s choosing and developing a meaningful philosophy of life. Extrinsic goals, on the other hand, are those that have to do with material rewards and other people’s judgments. They include goals of high income, status, and good looks. Twenge cites evidence that young people today are, on average, more oriented toward extrinsic goals and less oriented toward intrinsic goals than they were in the past. For example, a poll conducted annually of college freshmen shows that most students today list “being well off financially” as more important to them than “developing a meaningful philosophy of life,” while the reverse was true in the 1960s and ’70s.[4]

Twenge suggests that the shift from intrinsic to extrinsic goals represents a general shift toward a culture of materialism, transmitted through television and other media. Young people are exposed from birth on to advertisements and other messages implying that happiness depends on good looks, popularity, and material goods. My guess is that Twenge is at least partly correct on this, but I am going to suggest here a further cause, which I think is even more significant and basic. My hypothesis is that the generational increases in Externality, extrinsic goals, anxiety, and depression are all caused largely by the decline, over that same period, in opportunities for free play and the increased time and weight given to schooling.

children’s freedom to play and explore on their own, independent of direct adult guidance and direction, has declined greatly in recent decades. Free play and exploration are, historically, the means by which children learn to solve their own problems, control their own lives, develop their own interests, and become competent in pursuit of their own interests.

By depriving children of opportunities to play on their own, away from direct adult supervision and control, we are depriving them of opportunities to learn how to take control of their own lives. We may think we are protecting them, but in fact we are diminishing their joy, diminishing their sense of self-control, preventing them from discovering and exploring the endeavors they would most love, and increasing the chance that they will suffer from anxiety, depression, and various other mental disorders.

Children today spend more hours per day, days per year, and years of their life in school than ever before. More weight is given to tests and grades than ever before. Outside of school children spend more time than ever before in settings where they are directed, protected, catered to, ranked, judged, and rewarded by adults. In all of these settings adults are in control, not children.

School is also a place where children have little choice about with whom they can associate. They are herded into spaces filled with other children that they did not choose, and they must spend a good portion of each school day in those spaces. In free play, children who feel harassed or bullied can leave the situation and find another group that is more compatible; but in school they cannot.

The lowest levels of happiness by far (surprise, surprise) occurred when children were at school, and the highest levels occurred when they were out of school and conversing or playing with friends. Time spent with parents fell in the middle of the happiness-unhappiness range. Average happiness increased on weekends, but then plummeted from late Sunday afternoon through the evening, in anticipation of the coming school week.

So, yes, as a culture we have become more work and success focused. This is reflected in increased time for schooling and decreased free time which makes people feel like they’ve lost control, and so depression and anxiety increase…. coupled with advertising which also makes them look to external things for happiness….
As a culture, we need to recognize this problem and correct it. We need to put more emphasis on people finding their own happiness and less time trying to corral everyone into the rat race.

This is also reflected in Obama’s anal push for even time spent in school - I always thought the best lessons were learned outside of school.

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"I spent as much time as possible in the outdoor world, finding there the kind of inner nourishment that others are said to find in the mosque, the synagogue, the church - or the bank."

— Tom Robbins

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Ruby or Scala?

Python, Ruby, Scala & Groovy are all unexplored frontiers to me. I’m wondering what is worth giving a shot during tea-time for a few days. I have a friend who swears by Python but, going by my first impressions about these languages I just left out, Groovy and Python (I may be wrong but, It doesn’t matter much to me).

Now I need to choose between Ruby & Scala.

Any Suggestions?

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How do you use your brain cycles?

rodp:

As you might have noticed, most of the successful people in the world don’t have an IQ of 200. Then you’ve read tons of blogs, articles and books on the subject of succeeding, all of them preaching that dedication, rather than intellect, is what it takes to be successful. I don’t have a major problem with this theory, but I do know a lot of dedicated people who are not insanely successful.

The most important thing to consider, whilst figuring out why aren’t you successful already, is this: When you do use your brain cycles, how do you use them?

I don’t think most people aren’t dedicated. They are, but to the things that might not lead them to anything new or original. What are you thinking about most of the time? Sports? Boring old job? Partner? Some of these things are surely socially accepted ways of using your brain. However, if you’re not thinking about new ideas too much… well, don’t be surprised if you never get any.

We’re all cannons - it’s just that most of us are shooting flies all day long.

This post, of course, is a self-critique.

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"Paul Graham on why makers and managers need to manage their time differently: http://www.paulgraham.com/makersschedule.html"

martinfowler

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Unsurance

My scepticism towards insurance is not entirely misplaced, in fact Urbandictionary has a word defined for it.

Unsurance:

Coverage by contract whereby the party which has undertaken to guarantee protection or coverage against loss by a specified peril reneges said coverage when protection or action becomes necessary.

E.g:

I had to take little Throckmorton to a specialist for his asthma, but the visit was not covered by our health unsurance policy.

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The Last Man

India has given in to pressure again, our Dr. Manmohan Singh has  gone ahead and diluted the stance taken post 26/11 of not engaging in dialogue with Pakistan till it took concrete, credible action against terrorism emanating from Pakistani soil against India.

Terrorists are roaming free and all evidence provided by India is in the Pakistani dust bins. And now our prime minister has gone miles to hug them when they haven’t shown signs of moving one inch. Pakistani government had to do nothing to achieve this, all it had to do was may be just ask twice, that’s it.

Does it take billions of votes to elect a government like this? I think the last Man in Indian politics was Indira Gandhi.

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This looks like the chair that I wish I was caught dreaming on with a smile.
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This looks like the chair that I wish I was caught dreaming on with a smile.

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