What about those creatures that cant point fingers at what we do to them?
And what about those that don’t even understand whats happening?
-Rajeev B.
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What about those creatures that cant point fingers at what we do to them?
And what about those that don’t even understand whats happening?
-Rajeev B.
allcreatures: georgefant: (via sebseballade)
Shaping Earth:
Starting with simple ways of shaping earth for human needs of survival, we have transformed ourself into a species on which the fate of many life forms (including ourselves) depends upon.
Where we go from here, how far we go and whether we will be lonely travellers as we continue our journey, largely depends on how we shape ourselves now.
Rates of depression and anxiety among young people in America have been increasing steadily for the past fifty to seventy years. Today five to eight times as many high school and college students meet the criteria for diagnosis of major depression and/or an anxiety disorder as was true half a century or more ago
One thing we know about anxiety and depression is that they correlate significantly with people’s sense of control or lack of control over their own lives. People who believe that they are in charge of their own fate are less likely to become anxious or depressed than are those who believe that they are victims of circumstances beyond their control.
the average young person in 2002 was more External than were 80% of young people in the 1960s. The rise in Externality on Rotter’s scale over the 42-year period showed the same linear trend as did the rise in depression and anxiety.
Intrinsic goals are those that have to do with one’s own development as a person—such as becoming competent in endeavors of one’s choosing and developing a meaningful philosophy of life. Extrinsic goals, on the other hand, are those that have to do with material rewards and other people’s judgments. They include goals of high income, status, and good looks. Twenge cites evidence that young people today are, on average, more oriented toward extrinsic goals and less oriented toward intrinsic goals than they were in the past. For example, a poll conducted annually of college freshmen shows that most students today list “being well off financially” as more important to them than “developing a meaningful philosophy of life,” while the reverse was true in the 1960s and ’70s.[4]
Twenge suggests that the shift from intrinsic to extrinsic goals represents a general shift toward a culture of materialism, transmitted through television and other media. Young people are exposed from birth on to advertisements and other messages implying that happiness depends on good looks, popularity, and material goods. My guess is that Twenge is at least partly correct on this, but I am going to suggest here a further cause, which I think is even more significant and basic. My hypothesis is that the generational increases in Externality, extrinsic goals, anxiety, and depression are all caused largely by the decline, over that same period, in opportunities for free play and the increased time and weight given to schooling.
children’s freedom to play and explore on their own, independent of direct adult guidance and direction, has declined greatly in recent decades. Free play and exploration are, historically, the means by which children learn to solve their own problems, control their own lives, develop their own interests, and become competent in pursuit of their own interests.
By depriving children of opportunities to play on their own, away from direct adult supervision and control, we are depriving them of opportunities to learn how to take control of their own lives. We may think we are protecting them, but in fact we are diminishing their joy, diminishing their sense of self-control, preventing them from discovering and exploring the endeavors they would most love, and increasing the chance that they will suffer from anxiety, depression, and various other mental disorders.
Children today spend more hours per day, days per year, and years of their life in school than ever before. More weight is given to tests and grades than ever before. Outside of school children spend more time than ever before in settings where they are directed, protected, catered to, ranked, judged, and rewarded by adults. In all of these settings adults are in control, not children.
School is also a place where children have little choice about with whom they can associate. They are herded into spaces filled with other children that they did not choose, and they must spend a good portion of each school day in those spaces. In free play, children who feel harassed or bullied can leave the situation and find another group that is more compatible; but in school they cannot.
The lowest levels of happiness by far (surprise, surprise) occurred when children were at school, and the highest levels occurred when they were out of school and conversing or playing with friends. Time spent with parents fell in the middle of the happiness-unhappiness range. Average happiness increased on weekends, but then plummeted from late Sunday afternoon through the evening, in anticipation of the coming school week.
So, yes, as a culture we have become more work and success focused. This is reflected in increased time for schooling and decreased free time which makes people feel like they’ve lost control, and so depression and anxiety increase…. coupled with advertising which also makes them look to external things for happiness….
As a culture, we need to recognize this problem and correct it. We need to put more emphasis on people finding their own happiness and less time trying to corral everyone into the rat race.
This is also reflected in Obama’s anal push for even time spent in school - I always thought the best lessons were learned outside of school.
thx maximelagace:
Python, Ruby, Scala & Groovy are all unexplored frontiers to me. I’m wondering what is worth giving a shot during tea-time for a few days. I have a friend who swears by Python but, going by my first impressions about these languages I just left out, Groovy and Python (I may be wrong but, It doesn’t matter much to me).
Now I need to choose between Ruby & Scala.
Any Suggestions?
rodp:
via rodpAs you might have noticed, most of the successful people in the world don’t have an IQ of 200. Then you’ve read tons of blogs, articles and books on the subject of succeeding, all of them preaching that dedication, rather than intellect, is what it takes to be successful. I don’t have a major problem with this theory, but I do know a lot of dedicated people who are not insanely successful.
The most important thing to consider, whilst figuring out why aren’t you successful already, is this: When you do use your brain cycles, how do you use them?
I don’t think most people aren’t dedicated. They are, but to the things that might not lead them to anything new or original. What are you thinking about most of the time? Sports? Boring old job? Partner? Some of these things are surely socially accepted ways of using your brain. However, if you’re not thinking about new ideas too much… well, don’t be surprised if you never get any.
We’re all cannons - it’s just that most of us are shooting flies all day long.
This post, of course, is a self-critique.
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My scepticism towards insurance is not entirely misplaced, in fact Urbandictionary has a word defined for it.
Coverage by contract whereby the party which has undertaken to guarantee protection or coverage against loss by a specified peril reneges said coverage when protection or action becomes necessary.
E.g:
I had to take little Throckmorton to a specialist for his asthma, but the visit was not covered by our health unsurance policy.
India has given in to pressure again, our Dr. Manmohan Singh has gone ahead and diluted the stance taken post 26/11 of not engaging in dialogue with Pakistan till it took concrete, credible action against terrorism emanating from Pakistani soil against India.
Terrorists are roaming free and all evidence provided by India is in the Pakistani dust bins. And now our prime minister has gone miles to hug them when they haven’t shown signs of moving one inch. Pakistani government had to do nothing to achieve this, all it had to do was may be just ask twice, that’s it.
Does it take billions of votes to elect a government like this? I think the last Man in Indian politics was Indira Gandhi.
This looks like the chair that I wish I was caught dreaming on with a smile.
(via:hit-or-miss): (via:kari-shma): (Photographer: Cindy)
When you buy an insurance policy and pay your premiums regularly don’t think that the insurance companies will knock at your door to serve you at the hour of need. Though that’s the picture the executives paint when selling you a policy. Your insurance policy is really not the reassuring words that appear big bold and colourful on the first page of the broacher, your insurance is in the cryptic fine print. Remember, insurance is something you have to fight and claim. It is not a service delivered, though it is true that you are paying money for the big word assurances given to you.
My friend’s wife was injured in a road accident last year (she is yet to regain her normal walk), was admitted in a hospital and they had to deal with a serious fracture at the ankle, requiring a surgery. After the surgery was done and when my friend wanted to claim insurance, the company said she was eligible for claim only if the leg was completely broken and coming to hospital expenses, only the expenses incurred after 72 hours of hospitalization could be claimed.
My uncle had to be hospitalized for a week. They diagnosed him as suffering from a viral fever with acute arthritis and they also came to know he was diabetic, he dint have diabetes before. My uncle has a medical insurance policy and he wanted to claim, they said he is not eligible because he was diabetic.
My friend cancelled all the policies after the experience he had. I want to seriously review the policies that I am paying for, I’d rather give this money to charities than pay to these insurance companies.
A Linux Net-book sits right in front of me and makes me smile, even as I read this article about the death of Linux on netbooks.
Windows is a habit, and its hard to get rid of old habits, good or bad. Its harder when alternatives are stomped by dragons.
But, I believe good things have their place in our lives and as long as the world appreciates good stuff, good things will live on alongside not-so-good things that may die-hard.
The Dalai Lama’s Instructions for life:
Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.
Follow the three R’s:
- Respect for self.
- Respect for others.
- Responsibility for all your actions.
Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
Don’t let a little dispute injure a great relationship.
When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
Spend some time alone everyday.
Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.
Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll be able to enjoy it a second time.
A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.
In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
Share your knowledge. It is a way to achieve immortality.
Be gentle with the earth.
Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.
Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.
Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.
I Love this text with reckless abandon.
The 14th Dalai Lama of Tibet (via littlemiss)
There will typically be overlap, disagreement, and confusion before there is synergy, cooperation, and collaboration.
- Morgan Kaufman
Morgan Kaufman said this w.r.t coming together of view-points in a web of knowledge. I thought this statement holds good more generally too.
-Rawjeev